RONCEVERTE W.Va. (WVDN) – Sometimes, everyone needs a friend. Connections created in early childhood often carry meaning throughout a person’s life. Unfortunately, it is not always easy to begin those friendships. Being a new kid or inherently shy can make it difficult for children to reach out to their peers. Buddy Benches, also called Friendship Benches, create a safe space for kids to let their peers know they are open to a new friend without the awkwardness. Ronceverte Elementary began the new school year with two new Buddy Benches.
According to a statement posted to the Ronceverte Elementary Parent Teacher Organization (PTO) Facebook page, two Buddy Benches were installed on the school’s playground in honor of two local children. Asher and James Holliday passed away in 2018 and 2020 respectively. Now, the benches serve as a place to make friends and a reminder of those two incredible souls who left this earth too soon.
The boy’s father, Richie Holliday, recently spoke about the benches and learning they were dedicated to his sons. He said, “I thought it was very thoughtful for the PTO to name the benches in our son’s memory. All James knew was love and he had many buddies that was there for him!” He continued, “We were surprised to see the wonderful nameplates that were etched.”
Holliday said the one thing he wants the community to know about the benches is, “No matter what any child is going through, whether it be anxious over a test, a rough morning or just feeling lonely, they can sit on the ‘Buddy Bench’ and someone will be there for them. No one has to feel alone on the buddy bench.” He went on to note that it is important to remember, “Just because everything seems ok on the outside, doesn’t mean someone’s ok on the inside. Some are fighting battles you know nothing about. Be kind and alert to those in need.”
The concept for Buddy Benches began with a 7-year-old named Christian Bucks, who saw his classmates struggling during recess.
Following the installation of the inaugural bench at Bucks’ school, Sammie Vance, a 9-year-old, began looking into cheap ways to build one for her school. After her mother learned of a company that transforms recycled plastic caps and lids into benches, young Vance met with the school’s principal. She drew up a design and created a video presentation for her classmates. After collecting more than 1,600 pounds of bottle caps, which she received from every state in America, as well as parts of Africa, Israel, Germany, and the Netherlands, her design became a reality.
Now, these benches are found all around the world. When a Buddy Bench is present, anytime a child feels lonely, sad, or simply wants to make a new friend, all they have to do is take a seat. Then, other kids looking for someone to play with or talk to can strike up a conversation.
If your school does not have a Buddy Bench, consider talking to the administration about installing one. For more information about these benches, go to pbskids.org and search “buddy benches.”
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